Questions For The Fellas 3
AT WHAT POINT DO YOU ALLOW YOUR GIRL TO GO THROUGH YOUR PHONE...IF EVER?
johnieceGo through it looking for something? Lol
misscee__What she said 👆 you mean intentionally searching for shit?
mdenaro0odate a woman who doesn't play childish games. i'll ask my bf for his phone to make a call but not to search it. that's insanity.
faithandfavor20When you trust her and have nothing to hide
faithandfavor20But she shouldn't want to go through your phone if you are good to her and she trusts you
mel_tanellI a female but I think going through phones shouldn't take place.. Simply bc even if there's nothing there, nothing could be made out of something lol.
lovemeorleavemebe_1202This is a interesting topic. I know you asked the fellas but....lol I know when I'm in a relationship I don't have anything in my phone that can't be seen by my guy. I'm an open book with nothing to hide so....
alluresoloI don't see an issue with letting your significant other see your phone specially if you don't have anything to hide. Regardless of why they want to see it shouldn't be an issue if you have no reason to question their intentions of looking in the phone period. They may want to look at pictures or play a game. Once you say they can't see your phone then you open a whole another can of worms and assumptions that may be false to what they're thinking now.
veronica_ronnica82From day one if there's nothing to hide 💅
lotti_dottie_😂😂😂 but not one guy responded yet.
lovemeorleavemebe_1202I don't even have a lock on my phone. If there is nothing to hide then what is the issue?
bobbiekingsburyI'm not one if the fellas but I'm opinionated so here goes - if a woman goes thru your phone or wants to it's because she's either 1. Thinking you're talking to other women 2. Doesn't trust you 3. Insecure. All of which are negative. Couples need autonomy and not everything needs to be shared just because you're a couple. If you need to see what your significant other is saying or doing when you're not around then there are deeper issues needing to be addressed
misscee__I do but I don't have games on it or music lol and my shit love to die on me!
alluresoloThat's crazy poor reverse psychology talk bc most time when someone ask to see your phone it's bc either their phone died or you may have a better connection. If my boyfriend tells me if I trust him I shouldn't have to see his phone then my radar is going off because it's never been an issue before. Not asking or asking for a phone does not lay out a platform for trust. I think it's childish to not let your girlfriend or boyfriend see your phone especially if you don't know why they're asking in the first place.
alluresolo@lovemeorleavemebe_1202 I think some people don't trust themselves so they automatically think people don't them as well. They are constantly on defense mode about the most ridiculous things like this phone situation.
alluresolo@lovemeorleavemebe_1202 that is so true. When being in a relationship you need trust or you don't have anything to build your foundation. No trust no commitment no commitment no communication no communication no loyalty and so on. However, some people will never take the time to grasp that concept and apply it to life.
alluresoloIt is a bunch of game and nonsense. You will never have a healthy relationship with that mindset.
me2nurseWhen u start telling her u love her & she the only woman for you.