WHAT IF YOUR MAN WAS THE BEST IN BED BUT THE WORST AT KEEPING A JOB?
jloveli26He'd be single.
ciciluvsu2Not worth it, I need someone as ambitious and hardworking as me.
zee_doit24Couldn't do it... Sex is not everything its more important to have a stable man than one that's good at sex #myopinion
robincagedbirdAin't enough good sex in the world. I will not be supporting us #sorrynotsorry
temina143He'd have to do it moving! If I wanted a dependent, I'd have a child. Sex is not everything. He needs to at least be able to support himself. I don't mind helping when times get hard for him, but definitely not go take care of anyone without a job!!
lux_sheriSo its just sex he can offer? That shouldn't be your man then. Lol
luv2bme202Sex and finances are two things that can make or break a relationship, at least he's got 1 down
spicycocoa1I need a man that's good at working and in the bed and being a good father
timzdafutureLol dem ladies ya heartless money dem say😂😂😂
kayrprhe has to go!!!!!
tay_kwan_doUm, im sure I can find a new man whose great at both! But before I dump him id have to have him try to fix whatever mistakes he's been doing that negatively affect his work status.
divinelystampedDeuces. Dick ain't everything.
veec_lu@coachjohnholley I can't speak for all women, but I know many like myself, that we do not care how good you are in bed, if you can't maintain yourself and priorities, a woman loses respect for a man and once that happens, a good lay in bed no longer appeals to us with that man.
expressions_by_teyjaNaahhhh Bruh he's not worth keeping. Sorry. You can't be awesome at laying the pipe but suck at keeping a job. I'm not gone be the only footing the bill while all he do is sex me lol. Boy bye lol
@divinelystamped No. There has to be a balance my brother. Everything in moderation.
_ru27This is such a stupid question. Why would you keep a guy because he's good in bed? How are you going to pay bill? A mortgage? Food? Trip? You CAN find a man who is financially stable and good in bed you know. It doesn't have to be one or the other.
keaidyb_He has got to go! That would make me a trick and I am definitely not that.
reddliipss👎If you cant hold ur own, how are u gonna hold ME down? #nah #IfYoudontworkItwontwork
nonegativeppl__sorry wud rather u hold onto ur good job i can teach u how to be good in bed but if u still dead then u best get skipping cant say i neva tried to help before u got dashed one side @coachjohnholley #uasked
blu_inspurrationHe gotsta go! ALWAYS broke? No way! But that good sex tho 🙌👅💦
__y8sHe gotta go go.
_thesweetestthingIm a loyal girl so i would help him 100% tell him to try different career options, go back to school, start his own business but after all of that if he still broke and unsuccessful he gotta go lol @coachjohnholley
blu_inspurrationKMSL yes lawd!
katrina_iam@coachjohnholley got to be.....I look at it like this....What if it was the other way around? Would I want him to keep me if I had nothing to bring to the table? He could have lost his job...so I got his back on that...but he have to bring something to the table....and if sex is what he's bringing...I'm good with that!
kai_0620He wouldn't be my man, he would be the person who is laying down the pipes while in am looking for his replacement.
beautefulkellyUm yea we could be friends but that's about it. Him gotta go bye-bye
tay_kwan_doNah it ain't about the sex. Its about the relationship. He's not a random man. He's "my man" so the relationship has to be multifaceted and thus well balanced. But if he doesn't get his act together then I'll just find a man who can kill both those birds with one stone!! Lol
dimefelineNow I'm not to one to promote side pieces but he'd probably be my sidedick. ..ijs lol
toyabazIt depends on a number of things, I think everyone is good at something he just hasn't found his something. If he is contributing to the home and relationship in others ways that balance it out then we work together to find his thing. If it is just laziness or lacking ambition or drive then that would be a problem for me.
toyabazQuestion is would you stay in a relationship with a woman who is good in bed but unable or unwilling to hold down a job?
ashton_beeNo he gotta go not being able to keep a job show more about his character, values and goals he's not ambitious or motivated... When a guy is about his future and goals and is stable in his career the passion and love of that will please a women's mind, heart and soul and physical pleasure will come from that 💙💙💙👏
jessmoore5Good sex can go a long way! I'm very independent and I'm all about being the bread winner. If he trying then give credit where credit is due. However, as long as I know I'm financially stable then we are good. He better be a good cook too 😉 @coachjohnholley
slwhit86We couldn't be together. Relationship are not made in the bedroom and they can't survive there either. At some point he would need to get it together and learn how to hold down a job not for me but for HIS SELF!
veec_lu@coachjohnholley Yes. A woman's carnal need in a man is security. In everything, not just making us feel sexually desired. The only type of women that would put up with it, is a woman that absolutely does not want anything further with him than just a good climax. She doesn't care who he's with, where he's from, what he does, long as he shows up when shes craving some sexual attention, she'll put that boy on a cab and pay both ways because even she, will not let his ass stay the night. Lol
bteeceDepends why can't he keep a job
viwi87Is he being a stay at home daddy?
_xo.monroe216He's got to go!!! Lol
felicia4newsomehe will no longer be my man!!! now i aint sayin im a gold digger 🎵🎶🎼💴💸💳💱💲💵 but i ai t messin with a broke ______ ninja!!! lolol frfr
bteeceWell from reading these comments they sound pretty much on point. If he can't keep a job simply because he's not trying to then he got to go. I was always taught to have someone on my level or above never below. So if he doesn't have the skill or strive to be ambitious &have achievements or goals. That sex will only get him so far. Every guy has a penis &tongue so I always ask a guy what makes them different Cus sex doesn't excite me if that's all someone has to offer. I like intellect &goal diggers an yes I do mean goal not gold.@coachjohnholley
msreefa2uI have to agree with you @camfearce An underachiever does nothing for me regardless of how good he is in bed. They sell things if it boils down to only sex, which does not require having a job or keeping one, lol @coachjohnholley
camfearceUnderachievers are usually good in bed because they have a lot of time to practice...